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Are You Bracing—or Just Holding Your Breath?

Strength Training After 40

I can usually tell within one set when someone has confused bracing with holding their breath.

They get into position, take the biggest breath possible and hold it until their face turns red. When the repetition is over, they gasp and tell me they were “bracing.”

Sometimes they were.

Often, they were simply holding their breath and hoping the tension showed up somewhere useful.

The two strategies overlap, but they are not the same.

Bracing is the muscular tension that makes your torso more resistant to movement. Breath-holding is one way of increasing pressure inside that torso.

That additional pressure can be useful during a genuinely heavy lift. It is unnecessary during most exercises, and it cannot replace learning how to create muscular tension.

After 40, that distinction becomes worth understanding. Not because your body suddenly becomes fragile, but because training should become more deliberate rather than more fearful.

What Bracing Actually Is

Bracing is a coordinated contraction of the muscles surrounding your trunk.

Your abdominal muscles, obliques and spinal extensors work together to make your torso more rigid. Instead of allowing the spine and pelvis to move freely under load, the trunk becomes a more stable platform through which you can transfer force.

The closest everyday comparison is the moment before someone bumps into your stomach. You do not pull your belly inward. You tighten the entire area in preparation for the impact.

That is much closer to a brace.

The goal is not to flex only your “six-pack” muscles. You want tension around the front, sides and back of your torso.

Research comparing different abdominal stabilization strategies has generally found that full abdominal bracing creates greater lumbar stability than drawing the abdominal wall inward because bracing involves broader co-contraction of the trunk musculature.

Think of your torso as a cylinder.

A good brace stiffens the entire cylinder rather than pulling in one small section of the front wall.

Bracing Is Not the Same as Hollowing

For years, people with back pain were commonly told to pull their belly button toward their spine.

That technique is known as abdominal hollowing or drawing in.

Hollowing is not useless. It may have a role during early rehabilitation, low-load motor-control exercises or situations in which someone is learning how to activate the deeper abdominal muscles.

But it is not the same strategy you would normally use to stabilize your torso during a loaded squat, deadlift or carry.

When you pull the abdomen inward, you emphasize a narrower muscular strategy. When you brace, you create tension through the full abdominal wall.

For someone lifting an external load, I generally do not want the stomach sucked inward. I want the trunk to become firm and resistant to movement.

A simple cue is:

Tighten your torso as though someone is about to bump into you.

That usually works better than telling someone to “pull their belly button toward the spine.”

Where Breath-Holding Fits In

The Valsalva maneuver is a specific pressure strategy.

You take a breath, close the airway at your throat and attempt to exhale without allowing the air to escape. This increases pressure inside the chest and abdominal cavity.

That pressure can add rigidity to the torso.

This is why experienced strength athletes frequently hold their breath during a heavy squat, deadlift or press. The breath hold acts as a pressure amplifier for an already-established muscular brace.

Reviews of the research have found that intra-abdominal and intrathoracic pressures generally increase as lifting intensity and effort rise. The Valsalva maneuver can increase that pressure further and may assist trunk rigidity during demanding resistance exercise.

This does not mean that holding your breath automatically creates a good brace.

You can take a huge breath, clench your throat and still allow your ribs to flare, your pelvis to move or your lower back to lose position.

You can also brace effectively while continuing to breathe.

The best way to think about it is:

Bracing is the foundation. Breath-holding is an optional layer added when the load justifies it.

Why a Brief Breath Hold Can Help During Heavy Lifting

A heavy squat or deadlift creates a very different stability demand from a biceps curl.

During a near-maximal compound lift, your legs may be capable of producing more force than your torso can efficiently transfer if the trunk is not sufficiently rigid. A strong brace combined with a brief breath hold can make the torso more resistant to unwanted movement and help you maintain position through the most difficult portion of the lift.

That is a legitimate performance strategy.

It is not simply a bad habit that experienced lifters need to eliminate.

Telling every person to “never hold your breath while lifting” ignores the reason the strategy exists. For a healthy, experienced lifter performing a very heavy repetition, a short and intentional breath hold may be appropriate.

The problem begins when the same pressure strategy is used automatically during every exercise, every repetition and every set.

Breath-Holding Is Not Free

The pressure created during a Valsalva maneuver does not remain isolated inside the abdomen.

Heavy resistance exercise already produces a significant acute blood-pressure response. Adding prolonged breath-holding can increase that response further.

Small laboratory studies using maximal or near-maximal leg presses have recorded dramatically greater blood-pressure responses during closed-glottis breath-holding than during controlled exhalation. Those experiments involved highly demanding lifting conditions and should not be interpreted as representative of every recreational set, but they demonstrate why continuous straining is not appropriate for every exercise.

Breath-holding and heavier resistance exercise can also temporarily increase pressure inside the eye. A 2024 systematic review found that heavier loads, longer efforts and breath-holding tended to produce larger increases in intraocular pressure, although pressure generally returned toward baseline shortly after the exercise ended. The long-term importance of these temporary increases remains less certain.

This does not make the Valsalva maneuver inherently dangerous.

It means that the strategy has a physiological cost, and that cost should provide a meaningful benefit.

Holding your breath through a heavy deadlift may improve stability.

Holding your breath through 15 repetitions of a leg extension probably does not give you enough benefit to justify the additional strain.

Why This Deserves More Attention After 40

Turning 40 does not suddenly make your spine, heart or blood vessels unreliable.

Strength training remains one of the most important things adults can do to maintain muscle, strength and physical function as they age. Major professional recommendations continue to support progressive resistance training throughout adulthood and older age.

What changes is context.

By the time people reach their 40s, 50s and 60s, they are more likely to be returning to lifting after a long break, managing an old injury or training alongside a medical concern that deserves consideration.

Some know they have high blood pressure. Others may not have checked it recently. Some have been diagnosed with glaucoma or elevated eye pressure. Others have experienced dizziness, exertional headaches, pelvic-floor symptoms or complications from previous surgeries.

None of those automatically rules out strength training.

They mean that your breathing strategy should be chosen intentionally rather than copied from a powerlifter performing a maximal attempt.

More Bracing Is Not Always Better

Many people treat bracing like an on-and-off switch.

They are either relaxed or squeezing as hard as physically possible.

That is not how efficient movement works.

Bracing should operate more like a volume dial.

Picking up a coffee cup requires almost no conscious bracing. Carrying a moderately heavy grocery bag requires more. Performing a challenging set of squats requires considerably more.

A near-maximal deadlift may require almost everything you can create.

The amount of tension should match the task.

Using a maximal brace during every exercise wastes energy and often creates unnecessary tension in the jaw, neck and shoulders. It can also make it harder to breathe naturally during longer sets.

The goal is not to become as rigid as possible at all times.

The goal is to create enough rigidity to control the movement.

A Practical Breathing System

The correct breathing strategy depends on the exercise, the load, the number of repetitions and how close you are to muscular failure.

It should not be determined by the exercise name alone.

A light squat and a maximal squat are both squats, but they do not require the same pressure strategy.

Light and Supported Exercises

During curls, triceps exercises, lateral raises, leg extensions and many supported machine exercises, breathe continuously.

Inhale during the easier portion of the movement and exhale during the harder portion.

You still need enough background trunk tension to maintain your position, but there is usually no reason to create a maximal brace or hold your breath.

Your face should not turn red during a set of cable curls.

Moderate Compound Exercises

During moderate squats, split squats, presses, rows and deadlift variations, take a controlled breath before the repetition and create tension around your torso.

Begin the movement while maintaining the brace.

As you move through the most difficult portion, allow air to escape gradually rather than releasing everything at once.

Some people find it helpful to exhale through slightly pursed lips or make a quiet hissing sound. This allows air to move while helping them retain some abdominal tension.

Reset your position and breathing as needed between repetitions.

Very Heavy Repetitions

During a very heavy squat, deadlift or press, a healthy and experienced lifter may choose to hold the breath briefly through the most demanding part of the repetition.

Create the brace before the weight begins moving.

Maintain the breath hold through the portion where losing trunk position would be most likely.

Release the breath once you have passed the sticking point or returned the weight to a secure position.

Reset between repetitions whenever the exercise provides a safe opportunity.

A brief, deliberate breath hold during a heavy repetition is different from refusing to breathe through an entire set.

Carries, Planks and Longer Holds

You cannot hold your breath throughout a long farmer’s carry or a 45-second plank.

This is where you need to learn how to breathe behind the brace.

Maintain enough abdominal tension to prevent your position from collapsing while taking smaller, controlled breaths.

The outer wall of the torso stays firm, but air continues to move inside it.

That skill transfers well beyond the gym. You use it when carrying furniture, moving equipment, lifting a child or maintaining control in an awkward position.

How to Feel a Proper Brace

Stand upright and place your hands around your waist.

Put your fingers toward the front of your abdomen and your thumbs toward your sides or lower back.

Take a moderate breath into the lower part of your torso. Try to feel some expansion toward the front, sides and back rather than allowing only the upper chest and shoulders to rise.

Now tighten your trunk as though someone were about to bump into you.

You should feel the area under your fingers become firmer.

Do not pull the stomach inward.

Do not lift your shoulders.

Do not arch your lower back to make room for a larger breath.

The breath should help you create pressure, but the muscular tension should remain even as some of the air begins to leave.

The Cough-and-Breathe Practice Drill

Place your fingers against the front and sides of your abdomen.

Cough gently once.

You should feel the abdominal wall briefly tighten around your fingers.

Now recreate part of that tension voluntarily without coughing. Use approximately half of your maximum effort.

While maintaining that tension, continue breathing or say a short sentence out loud.

You do not need to speak normally while producing a maximal lifting brace. The purpose of the drill is simply to show that muscular tension and complete breath-holding are not the same thing.

This is a coordination exercise, not a test that determines whether you are ready for maximal lifting.

Exercise-Specific Cues

Squat

Before descending, take a controlled breath and create tension around your waist.

Think:

Breathe low and wide. Make the torso solid before you move.

During a moderate set, begin exhaling as you drive through the most difficult part of the ascent.

During a very heavy repetition, you may briefly hold the breath through the bottom position and begin releasing it once you have moved beyond the sticking point.

Avoid taking such a large breath that your ribs flare upward and your lower back overextends.

Deadlift

Brace before the weight leaves the floor.

Do not begin pulling and then attempt to create tension halfway through the lift.

Think:

Take the slack out of the bar. Brace. Then push the floor away.

During moderate repetitions, you can begin exhaling gradually as you stand.

During a heavy repetition, a brief breath hold may continue until the bar is secure at the top or has returned to the floor.

Bench Press

Set your upper back and establish your trunk position before lowering the bar.

For a moderate set, inhale as the bar descends and exhale gradually as you press through the difficult portion.

During a heavy repetition, a brief breath hold may help maintain whole-body tension until the bar has moved beyond the sticking point.

Your abdominal brace does not need to be as aggressive as it would be during a maximal squat, but a completely relaxed torso gives your shoulders a less stable platform from which to press.

Overhead Press

The overhead press exposes poor trunk control quickly.

Brace the abdomen and glutes before the weight leaves your shoulders.

Keep your rib cage reasonably stacked over your pelvis rather than leaning farther backward as the weight gets difficult.

For most training sets, exhale as the weight passes the most difficult point.

Split Squat

A split squat requires control, but it rarely needs the same pressure strategy as a maximal deadlift.

Take a controlled breath, create enough tension to keep the torso and pelvis organized and continue breathing throughout most sets.

If you find yourself holding your breath through an entire set of split squats, you are probably using more pressure than the exercise requires.

Signs You May Be Holding Your Breath Instead of Bracing

You may be relying too heavily on trapped air if:

  • Your chest and shoulders rise dramatically before every repetition.

  • Your neck and jaw feel tighter than your abdomen.

  • You lose all trunk tension the moment you exhale.

  • You hold one breath through several repetitions.

  • You become lightheaded after moderate sets.

  • Your face turns red during exercises that place little demand on trunk stability.

  • You feel more limited by the breath hold than by the muscles you are trying to train.

A good brace should improve control.

It should not turn every set into a survival test.

When to Be More Conservative

People with diagnosed or poorly controlled hypertension should generally avoid prolonged breath-holding during resistance exercise. The American College of Sports Medicine specifically cautions that breath-holding while lifting can produce very high blood-pressure responses, dizziness and fainting.

A more conservative strategy may also be appropriate if you have:

  • Known cardiovascular or aortic disease

  • Glaucoma, elevated intraocular pressure or recent eye surgery

  • A history of dizziness, fainting or severe exertional headaches

  • Recent abdominal, hernia or cardiovascular surgery

  • Pelvic-floor symptoms such as leaking, pressure, heaviness or bulging during lifting

  • Chest pain, unusual palpitations or unexplained shortness of breath during exercise

Most physical activity is beneficial rather than harmful to the pelvic floor, but strenuous activity and increases in abdominal pressure can provoke or worsen symptoms in some people. The available evidence remains mixed, so symptoms should lead to individual modification rather than a blanket claim that heavy lifting is either always harmful or always harmless.

The answer is not necessarily to stop lifting.

It may mean reducing the load, avoiding grinding repetitions, changing the breathing pattern or working with a physician, ophthalmologist or pelvic-health professional who understands the demands of resistance training.

The Bottom Line

Bracing and breath-holding often happen together, but they are not the same skill.

Bracing is muscular tension.

Breath-holding is a pressure strategy.

Use enough muscular tension to control the movement. Continue breathing during most of your training. Reserve deliberate breath-holding for the heavy repetitions where the additional pressure provides a real benefit—and where your health and experience make it appropriate.

A good brace should make the repetition more controlled, not turn every set into a survival test.

Learn to brace first.

Let the weight earn everything beyond that.

Selected Research

Grenier SG, McGill SM. Quantification of lumbar stability by using two different abdominal activation strategies. Archives of Physical Medicine and Rehabilitation. 2007.

Vera-Garcia FJ et al. Effects of abdominal stabilization maneuvers on the control of spine motion and stability against sudden trunk perturbations. Journal of Electromyography and Kinesiology. 2007.

Hackett DA, Chow CM. The Valsalva maneuver: its effect on intra-abdominal pressure and safety issues during resistance exercise. Journal of Strength and Conditioning Research. 2013.

Blazek D et al. Systematic review of intra-abdominal and intrathoracic pressures initiated by the Valsalva manoeuvre during high-intensity resistance exercises. Biology of Sport. 2019.

Narloch JA, Brandstater ME. Influence of breathing technique on arterial blood pressure during heavy weight lifting. Archives of Physical Medicine and Rehabilitation. 1995.

Hackett DA et al. Acute effects of resistance exercise on intraocular pressure in healthy adults: a systematic review. Journal of Strength and Conditioning Research. 2024.

Fragala MS et al. Resistance training for older adults: position statement from the National Strength and Conditioning Association. Journal of Strength and Conditioning Research. 2019.

Bø K, Nygaard IE. Is physical activity good or bad for the female pelvic floor? A narrative review. Sports Medicine. 2020.

 

Are You Bracing—or Just Holding Your Breath?

Strength Training After 40

I can usually tell within one set when someone has confused bracing with holding their breath.

They get into position, take the biggest breath possible and hold it until their face turns red. When the repetition is over, they gasp and tell me they were “bracing.”

Sometimes they were.

Often, they were simply holding their breath and hoping the tension showed up somewhere useful.

The two strategies overlap, but they are not the same.

Bracing is the muscular tension that makes your torso more resistant to movement. Breath-holding is one way of increasing pressure inside that torso.

That additional pressure can be useful during a genuinely heavy lift. It is unnecessary during most exercises, and it cannot replace learning how to create muscular tension.

After 40, that distinction becomes worth understanding. Not because your body suddenly becomes fragile, but because training should become more deliberate rather than more fearful.

What Bracing Actually Is

Bracing is a coordinated contraction of the muscles surrounding your trunk.

Your abdominal muscles, obliques and spinal extensors work together to make your torso more rigid. Instead of allowing the spine and pelvis to move freely under load, the trunk becomes a more stable platform through which you can transfer force.

The closest everyday comparison is the moment before someone bumps into your stomach. You do not pull your belly inward. You tighten the entire area in preparation for the impact.

That is much closer to a brace.

The goal is not to flex only your “six-pack” muscles. You want tension around the front, sides and back of your torso.

Research comparing different abdominal stabilization strategies has generally found that full abdominal bracing creates greater lumbar stability than drawing the abdominal wall inward because bracing involves broader co-contraction of the trunk musculature.

Think of your torso as a cylinder.

A good brace stiffens the entire cylinder rather than pulling in one small section of the front wall.

Bracing Is Not the Same as Hollowing

For years, people with back pain were commonly told to pull their belly button toward their spine.

That technique is known as abdominal hollowing or drawing in.

Hollowing is not useless. It may have a role during early rehabilitation, low-load motor-control exercises or situations in which someone is learning how to activate the deeper abdominal muscles.

But it is not the same strategy you would normally use to stabilize your torso during a loaded squat, deadlift or carry.

When you pull the abdomen inward, you emphasize a narrower muscular strategy. When you brace, you create tension through the full abdominal wall.

For someone lifting an external load, I generally do not want the stomach sucked inward. I want the trunk to become firm and resistant to movement.

A simple cue is:

Tighten your torso as though someone is about to bump into you.

That usually works better than telling someone to “pull their belly button toward the spine.”

Where Breath-Holding Fits In

The Valsalva maneuver is a specific pressure strategy.

You take a breath, close the airway at your throat and attempt to exhale without allowing the air to escape. This increases pressure inside the chest and abdominal cavity.

That pressure can add rigidity to the torso.

This is why experienced strength athletes frequently hold their breath during a heavy squat, deadlift or press. The breath hold acts as a pressure amplifier for an already-established muscular brace.

Reviews of the research have found that intra-abdominal and intrathoracic pressures generally increase as lifting intensity and effort rise. The Valsalva maneuver can increase that pressure further and may assist trunk rigidity during demanding resistance exercise.

This does not mean that holding your breath automatically creates a good brace.

You can take a huge breath, clench your throat and still allow your ribs to flare, your pelvis to move or your lower back to lose position.

You can also brace effectively while continuing to breathe.

The best way to think about it is:

Bracing is the foundation. Breath-holding is an optional layer added when the load justifies it.

Why a Brief Breath Hold Can Help During Heavy Lifting

A heavy squat or deadlift creates a very different stability demand from a biceps curl.

During a near-maximal compound lift, your legs may be capable of producing more force than your torso can efficiently transfer if the trunk is not sufficiently rigid. A strong brace combined with a brief breath hold can make the torso more resistant to unwanted movement and help you maintain position through the most difficult portion of the lift.

That is a legitimate performance strategy.

It is not simply a bad habit that experienced lifters need to eliminate.

Telling every person to “never hold your breath while lifting” ignores the reason the strategy exists. For a healthy, experienced lifter performing a very heavy repetition, a short and intentional breath hold may be appropriate.

The problem begins when the same pressure strategy is used automatically during every exercise, every repetition and every set.

Breath-Holding Is Not Free

The pressure created during a Valsalva maneuver does not remain isolated inside the abdomen.

Heavy resistance exercise already produces a significant acute blood-pressure response. Adding prolonged breath-holding can increase that response further.

Small laboratory studies using maximal or near-maximal leg presses have recorded dramatically greater blood-pressure responses during closed-glottis breath-holding than during controlled exhalation. Those experiments involved highly demanding lifting conditions and should not be interpreted as representative of every recreational set, but they demonstrate why continuous straining is not appropriate for every exercise.

Breath-holding and heavier resistance exercise can also temporarily increase pressure inside the eye. A 2024 systematic review found that heavier loads, longer efforts and breath-holding tended to produce larger increases in intraocular pressure, although pressure generally returned toward baseline shortly after the exercise ended. The long-term importance of these temporary increases remains less certain.

This does not make the Valsalva maneuver inherently dangerous.

It means that the strategy has a physiological cost, and that cost should provide a meaningful benefit.

Holding your breath through a heavy deadlift may improve stability.

Holding your breath through 15 repetitions of a leg extension probably does not give you enough benefit to justify the additional strain.

Why This Deserves More Attention After 40

Turning 40 does not suddenly make your spine, heart or blood vessels unreliable.

Strength training remains one of the most important things adults can do to maintain muscle, strength and physical function as they age. Major professional recommendations continue to support progressive resistance training throughout adulthood and older age.

What changes is context.

By the time people reach their 40s, 50s and 60s, they are more likely to be returning to lifting after a long break, managing an old injury or training alongside a medical concern that deserves consideration.

Some know they have high blood pressure. Others may not have checked it recently. Some have been diagnosed with glaucoma or elevated eye pressure. Others have experienced dizziness, exertional headaches, pelvic-floor symptoms or complications from previous surgeries.

None of those automatically rules out strength training.

They mean that your breathing strategy should be chosen intentionally rather than copied from a powerlifter performing a maximal attempt.

More Bracing Is Not Always Better

Many people treat bracing like an on-and-off switch.

They are either relaxed or squeezing as hard as physically possible.

That is not how efficient movement works.

Bracing should operate more like a volume dial.

Picking up a coffee cup requires almost no conscious bracing. Carrying a moderately heavy grocery bag requires more. Performing a challenging set of squats requires considerably more.

A near-maximal deadlift may require almost everything you can create.

The amount of tension should match the task.

Using a maximal brace during every exercise wastes energy and often creates unnecessary tension in the jaw, neck and shoulders. It can also make it harder to breathe naturally during longer sets.

The goal is not to become as rigid as possible at all times.

The goal is to create enough rigidity to control the movement.

A Practical Breathing System

The correct breathing strategy depends on the exercise, the load, the number of repetitions and how close you are to muscular failure.

It should not be determined by the exercise name alone.

A light squat and a maximal squat are both squats, but they do not require the same pressure strategy.

Light and Supported Exercises

During curls, triceps exercises, lateral raises, leg extensions and many supported machine exercises, breathe continuously.

Inhale during the easier portion of the movement and exhale during the harder portion.

You still need enough background trunk tension to maintain your position, but there is usually no reason to create a maximal brace or hold your breath.

Your face should not turn red during a set of cable curls.

Moderate Compound Exercises

During moderate squats, split squats, presses, rows and deadlift variations, take a controlled breath before the repetition and create tension around your torso.

Begin the movement while maintaining the brace.

As you move through the most difficult portion, allow air to escape gradually rather than releasing everything at once.

Some people find it helpful to exhale through slightly pursed lips or make a quiet hissing sound. This allows air to move while helping them retain some abdominal tension.

Reset your position and breathing as needed between repetitions.

Very Heavy Repetitions

During a very heavy squat, deadlift or press, a healthy and experienced lifter may choose to hold the breath briefly through the most demanding part of the repetition.

Create the brace before the weight begins moving.

Maintain the breath hold through the portion where losing trunk position would be most likely.

Release the breath once you have passed the sticking point or returned the weight to a secure position.

Reset between repetitions whenever the exercise provides a safe opportunity.

A brief, deliberate breath hold during a heavy repetition is different from refusing to breathe through an entire set.

Carries, Planks and Longer Holds

You cannot hold your breath throughout a long farmer’s carry or a 45-second plank.

This is where you need to learn how to breathe behind the brace.

Maintain enough abdominal tension to prevent your position from collapsing while taking smaller, controlled breaths.

The outer wall of the torso stays firm, but air continues to move inside it.

That skill transfers well beyond the gym. You use it when carrying furniture, moving equipment, lifting a child or maintaining control in an awkward position.

How to Feel a Proper Brace

Stand upright and place your hands around your waist.

Put your fingers toward the front of your abdomen and your thumbs toward your sides or lower back.

Take a moderate breath into the lower part of your torso. Try to feel some expansion toward the front, sides and back rather than allowing only the upper chest and shoulders to rise.

Now tighten your trunk as though someone were about to bump into you.

You should feel the area under your fingers become firmer.

Do not pull the stomach inward.

Do not lift your shoulders.

Do not arch your lower back to make room for a larger breath.

The breath should help you create pressure, but the muscular tension should remain even as some of the air begins to leave.

The Cough-and-Breathe Practice Drill

Place your fingers against the front and sides of your abdomen.

Cough gently once.

You should feel the abdominal wall briefly tighten around your fingers.

Now recreate part of that tension voluntarily without coughing. Use approximately half of your maximum effort.

While maintaining that tension, continue breathing or say a short sentence out loud.

You do not need to speak normally while producing a maximal lifting brace. The purpose of the drill is simply to show that muscular tension and complete breath-holding are not the same thing.

This is a coordination exercise, not a test that determines whether you are ready for maximal lifting.

Exercise-Specific Cues

Squat

Before descending, take a controlled breath and create tension around your waist.

Think:

Breathe low and wide. Make the torso solid before you move.

During a moderate set, begin exhaling as you drive through the most difficult part of the ascent.

During a very heavy repetition, you may briefly hold the breath through the bottom position and begin releasing it once you have moved beyond the sticking point.

Avoid taking such a large breath that your ribs flare upward and your lower back overextends.

Deadlift

Brace before the weight leaves the floor.

Do not begin pulling and then attempt to create tension halfway through the lift.

Think:

Take the slack out of the bar. Brace. Then push the floor away.

During moderate repetitions, you can begin exhaling gradually as you stand.

During a heavy repetition, a brief breath hold may continue until the bar is secure at the top or has returned to the floor.

Bench Press

Set your upper back and establish your trunk position before lowering the bar.

For a moderate set, inhale as the bar descends and exhale gradually as you press through the difficult portion.

During a heavy repetition, a brief breath hold may help maintain whole-body tension until the bar has moved beyond the sticking point.

Your abdominal brace does not need to be as aggressive as it would be during a maximal squat, but a completely relaxed torso gives your shoulders a less stable platform from which to press.

Overhead Press

The overhead press exposes poor trunk control quickly.

Brace the abdomen and glutes before the weight leaves your shoulders.

Keep your rib cage reasonably stacked over your pelvis rather than leaning farther backward as the weight gets difficult.

For most training sets, exhale as the weight passes the most difficult point.

Split Squat

A split squat requires control, but it rarely needs the same pressure strategy as a maximal deadlift.

Take a controlled breath, create enough tension to keep the torso and pelvis organized and continue breathing throughout most sets.

If you find yourself holding your breath through an entire set of split squats, you are probably using more pressure than the exercise requires.

Signs You May Be Holding Your Breath Instead of Bracing

You may be relying too heavily on trapped air if:

  • Your chest and shoulders rise dramatically before every repetition.
  • Your neck and jaw feel tighter than your abdomen.
  • You lose all trunk tension the moment you exhale.
  • You hold one breath through several repetitions.
  • You become lightheaded after moderate sets.
  • Your face turns red during exercises that place little demand on trunk stability.
  • You feel more limited by the breath hold than by the muscles you are trying to train.

A good brace should improve control.

It should not turn every set into a survival test.

When to Be More Conservative

People with diagnosed or poorly controlled hypertension should generally avoid prolonged breath-holding during resistance exercise. The American College of Sports Medicine specifically cautions that breath-holding while lifting can produce very high blood-pressure responses, dizziness and fainting.

A more conservative strategy may also be appropriate if you have:

  • Known cardiovascular or aortic disease
  • Glaucoma, elevated intraocular pressure or recent eye surgery
  • A history of dizziness, fainting or severe exertional headaches
  • Recent abdominal, hernia or cardiovascular surgery
  • Pelvic-floor symptoms such as leaking, pressure, heaviness or bulging during lifting
  • Chest pain, unusual palpitations or unexplained shortness of breath during exercise

Most physical activity is beneficial rather than harmful to the pelvic floor, but strenuous activity and increases in abdominal pressure can provoke or worsen symptoms in some people. The available evidence remains mixed, so symptoms should lead to individual modification rather than a blanket claim that heavy lifting is either always harmful or always harmless.

The answer is not necessarily to stop lifting.

It may mean reducing the load, avoiding grinding repetitions, changing the breathing pattern or working with a physician, ophthalmologist or pelvic-health professional who understands the demands of resistance training.

The Bottom Line

Bracing and breath-holding often happen together, but they are not the same skill.

Bracing is muscular tension.

Breath-holding is a pressure strategy.

Use enough muscular tension to control the movement. Continue breathing during most of your training. Reserve deliberate breath-holding for the heavy repetitions where the additional pressure provides a real benefit—and where your health and experience make it appropriate.

A good brace should make the repetition more controlled, not turn every set into a survival test.

Learn to brace first.

Let the weight earn everything beyond that.

Selected Research

Grenier SG, McGill SM. Quantification of lumbar stability by using two different abdominal activation strategies. Archives of Physical Medicine and Rehabilitation. 2007.

Vera-Garcia FJ et al. Effects of abdominal stabilization maneuvers on the control of spine motion and stability against sudden trunk perturbations. Journal of Electromyography and Kinesiology. 2007.

Hackett DA, Chow CM. The Valsalva maneuver: its effect on intra-abdominal pressure and safety issues during resistance exercise. Journal of Strength and Conditioning Research. 2013.

Blazek D et al. Systematic review of intra-abdominal and intrathoracic pressures initiated by the Valsalva manoeuvre during high-intensity resistance exercises. Biology of Sport. 2019.

Narloch JA, Brandstater ME. Influence of breathing technique on arterial blood pressure during heavy weight lifting. Archives of Physical Medicine and Rehabilitation. 1995.

Hackett DA et al. Acute effects of resistance exercise on intraocular pressure in healthy adults: a systematic review. Journal of Strength and Conditioning Research. 2024.

Fragala MS et al. Resistance training for older adults: position statement from the National Strength and Conditioning Association. Journal of Strength and Conditioning Research. 2019.

Bø K, Nygaard IE. Is physical activity good or bad for the female pelvic floor? A narrative review. Sports Medicine. 2020.

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Eat After 40: No More Calorie Tracking | Shape Up Fitness

How to Eat After 40 Without Tracking Calories Forever

At some point in your 40s, eating can start to feel more complicated than it used to.

You may be exercising regularly and eating what you consider a reasonably healthy diet, yet your weight slowly creeps upward. The meals that worked for you in the past no longer seem to produce the same results. Losing five or ten pounds requires more effort, and maintaining that loss can feel as though it requires tracking every meal for the rest of your life.

It is easy to conclude that your metabolism has suddenly slowed down.

That explanation is understandable, but it is probably incomplete.

One of the largest studies of human energy expenditure found that, after accounting for body size and composition, total and basal energy expenditure remained remarkably stable from approximately age 20 through age 60. The measurable age-related decline became more apparent after 60 (Pontzer et al., 2021).

That does not mean you are imagining the changes.

Your eating habits, movement, sleep, body composition, training, work responsibilities, and food environment may no longer look the way they did at 25. Together, those changes can alter how much food you need and how easy it is to consume more energy than that amount.

The answer is not to pretend that calories do not matter.

It is also not necessarily to count every calorie forever.

There is a practical middle ground.

Your Metabolism Probably Did Not Break at 40

When someone gains weight in midlife, metabolism usually receives the blame.

However, chronological age is only one part of the picture.

Perhaps your job has become more sedentary. You no longer walk across a college campus, participate in recreational sports, or spend your weekends constantly moving from one activity to another. You may still complete a hard workout several days per week while sitting for most of the remaining day.

Your workout represents only a small portion of your daily activity. Walking, household tasks, taking the stairs, carrying groceries, moving around at work, and generally spending less time sitting can collectively influence how much energy you use.

Your food environment may also have changed.

You may eat at restaurants more often, snack while working, finish food left by your children, drink more alcohol, or rely more heavily on convenient meals. None of these behaviors has to be extreme. An additional 100 or 200 calories on many days can be difficult to notice because it may not create an obvious sense of overeating.

Body composition matters as well. A person who has lost muscle, gained fat, or reduced total activity may require less energy than before, even if age itself did not cause a sudden metabolic collapse.

For women, the menopausal transition can add another layer.

Research from the Study of Women’s Health Across the Nation found that the rate of fat gain increased and lean mass began to decline during the menopausal transition. Those changes continued until approximately two years after the final menstrual period. Interestingly, body weight itself did not suddenly accelerate at the start of menopause, partly because fat gain and lean-mass loss occurred at the same time (Greendale et al., 2019).

Hormonal changes can therefore affect body composition, fat distribution, sleep, appetite, recovery, and the conditions under which weight is managed.

They do not make energy balance irrelevant.

Calories Matter Even When You Do Not Count Them

Calories are a measurement of energy.

If you consistently consume more energy than your body uses, the excess has to go somewhere. If you consistently consume less, body weight generally decreases.

Knowing that calories matter, however, does not mean that every person must calculate them every day.

You already manage many measurable variables without constantly calculating them. Once you understand your general hydration needs, for example, you probably do not measure every ounce of fluid forever. You develop routines and make adjustments based on the situation and the feedback your body provides.

Eating can eventually work in a similar way.

The difficulty is that modern foods and portion sizes can make internal feedback less reliable. Some foods provide large amounts of energy before they create much fullness. Large portions can also encourage people to eat more without realizing it.

That is why temporary calorie tracking can be valuable.

Tracking can reveal what your normal eating actually contains. Once you understand that, you can build a system that manages calorie intake indirectly.

The goal is not to prove that calories do not matter.

The goal is to stop needing a calculator to manage them.

Why Food Structure Changes How Much You Eat

Not all diets containing the same theoretical number of calories are equally easy to follow.

In a controlled inpatient trial, Hall et al. (2019) provided 20 adults with either an ultra-processed or an unprocessed diet for two weeks before participants crossed over to the other condition. Participants were allowed to eat as much or as little of the provided food as they wanted.

The presented diets were designed to be similar in calories, macronutrients, sugar, sodium, and fiber. Nevertheless, participants consumed approximately 508 more calories per day during the ultra-processed phase. They gained an average of approximately 0.9 kilograms during that phase and lost a similar amount during the unprocessed phase.

A newer free-living crossover trial compared two diets that both followed the United Kingdom’s Eatwell Guide. One emphasized minimally processed foods, while the other contained more ultra-processed foods.

Both diets produced weight loss over eight weeks, but the minimally processed diet produced a greater average reduction in body weight: approximately 2.06%, compared with 1.05% on the ultra-processed diet (Dicken et al., 2025).

These findings do not mean that every processed food is harmful.

Greek yogurt, frozen vegetables, canned beans, protein powder, and whole-grain bread are all processed to some degree. They can still be nutritious, convenient, and useful.

The practical concern is a dietary pattern built primarily around foods that are easy to eat quickly, provide substantial energy in small portions, and make passive overeating more likely.

Food quality does not cancel calories.

Food quality changes how easy it is to consume an appropriate number of calories.

Portion Size Can Override Your Appetite

Most people believe that they will naturally stop eating once their body has received enough food.

Unfortunately, appetite does not always compensate accurately for the portion placed in front of us.

In one controlled study, increasing the portions of all foods by 50% caused participants to consume an average of 423 additional calories per day. The effect persisted across the entire 11-day study, and participants did not fully compensate by eating less later (Rolls et al., 2007).

In a separate experiment, increasing portions by 50% raised daily calorie intake by approximately 16%. Doubling the portions increased intake by approximately 26% (Rolls et al., 2006a).

The effect also works in the other direction.

In another controlled study, reducing portions by 25% decreased intake by approximately 231 calories per day. Reducing the energy density of the food by 25% decreased intake by approximately 575 calories per day. These were separate experimental manipulations, and participants did not report meaningful increases in hunger or decreases in fullness (Rolls et al., 2006b).

The lesson is not that every meal should be tiny.

It is that different parts of the meal should be treated differently.

You can usually be more generous with:

  • Non-starchy vegetables

  • Fruit

  • Lean sources of protein

  • Beans and lentils

  • Potatoes and other filling carbohydrate sources appropriate to your activity

You may need to be more intentional with:

  • Cooking oil

  • Butter

  • Cheese

  • Nuts and nut butter

  • Creamy sauces and dressings

  • Desserts

  • Alcohol

  • Fried foods

  • Restaurant portions

Those foods do not need to be eliminated. Their calories are simply easier to underestimate.

Eat More Food Without Necessarily Eating More Calories

Energy density describes how many calories are contained in a particular weight or volume of food.

Foods containing more water and fiber generally provide more volume for fewer calories. Foods containing large amounts of fat provide more calories in a smaller physical space because dietary fat is highly energy dense.

Consider the difference between eating 300 calories of strawberries and 300 calories of peanut butter.

Neither food is inherently good or bad. However, the amount of food, the time required to eat it, and the fullness produced afterward are very different.

This helps explain why someone can eat a large plate of food while losing weight, while someone else can eat relatively small meals and still gain weight.

The goal is not to make every meal as low-calorie as possible. That approach can leave an active person underfueled and dissatisfied.

The goal is to use lower-energy-density foods to create enough volume and then add the amount of carbohydrate and fat that matches the person’s activity, preferences, and goals.

A runner completing 40 miles per week should not necessarily eat the same carbohydrate portions as a sedentary person trying to lose weight. Their meals may have the same general structure, but the amounts should differ considerably.

Make Protein the Anchor of the Meal

Protein is particularly useful after 40 because it can contribute to both appetite management and the preservation of lean tissue.

In a small controlled study, increasing protein from 15% to 30% of calorie intake while keeping carbohydrate intake constant led participants to consume approximately 441 fewer calories per day when subsequently allowed to eat freely (Weigle et al., 2005).

That does not mean everyone will automatically eat exactly 441 fewer calories after increasing protein. The study included only 19 participants and used a specific diet design.

It does demonstrate that protein can meaningfully affect fullness and spontaneous food intake.

Protein is also important during weight loss. Losing weight can involve the loss of both fat and lean tissue. Consuming more than the basic Recommended Dietary Allowance may help protect fat-free mass during a calorie deficit, particularly when combined with resistance training (Pasiakos et al., 2013).

For many healthy and physically active adults, approximately 1.2 to 1.6 grams of protein per kilogram of body weight per day is a reasonable general range.

A large meta-analysis of resistance-training studies found that additional lean-mass benefits tended to level off around a total protein intake of approximately 1.6 grams per kilogram per day, although individual needs and responses varied (Morton et al., 2018).

You do not necessarily have to calculate that number forever.

A simpler long-term rule is to include a meaningful protein source at each main meal.

Possible protein sources include:

  • Eggs or egg whites

  • Greek yogurt

  • Cottage cheese

  • Fish

  • Poultry

  • Lean meat

  • Tofu

  • Tempeh

  • Beans and lentils

  • A protein shake when convenience requires it

Try not to save nearly all of your protein for dinner. Spreading it across breakfast, lunch, and dinner makes it easier to reach an appropriate daily intake and gives each meal a more substantial protein anchor.

People with kidney disease or another condition that may alter protein requirements should individualize their intake with an appropriate healthcare professional.

Add Fiber and Food Volume

Protein should not become the entire diet.

Fruit, vegetables, beans, lentils, potatoes, and whole grains provide fiber, micronutrients, and food volume.

In an analysis of adults following calorie-restricted diets, higher fiber intake predicted greater weight loss and better dietary adherence, even after accounting for several other dietary and participant variables (Miketinas et al., 2019).

This does not establish fiber as a magic appetite suppressant. Different foods and types of fiber can affect fullness differently, and an association within a weight-loss intervention does not prove that fiber alone produced the result.

The useful principle is to make plant foods a visible part of most meals.

For example:

  • Add berries or another fruit to breakfast.

  • Include vegetables, fruit, beans, or lentils with lunch.

  • Make vegetables or another high-fiber food a substantial part of dinner.

  • Choose snacks that combine protein and fiber rather than relying entirely on crackers, chips, or sweets.

Increase fiber gradually, especially if your current intake is low. A sudden large increase can cause bloating, gas, or gastrointestinal discomfort.

Do Not Ignore Sleep

Sleep is not food, but it can change how difficult food decisions become.

In a randomized clinical trial, adults with overweight who habitually slept fewer than 6.5 hours per night received individualized sleep-hygiene counseling designed to extend their time in bed. The sleep-extension group reduced objectively measured energy intake under normal living conditions without being instructed to restrict calories (Tasali et al., 2022).

The participants were younger adults, so the exact response cannot automatically be generalized to everyone over 40. Nevertheless, the trial helps demonstrate that calorie intake is influenced by more than conscious knowledge or willpower.

Poor sleep can:

  • Create more waking opportunities to eat

  • Increase fatigue

  • Make convenient and highly palatable food more appealing

  • Reduce the willingness to shop and prepare balanced meals

  • Make exercise and daily movement feel more difficult

Someone who becomes intensely hungry every night may not simply lack discipline.

They may be sleeping too little, eating too little earlier in the day, consuming meals that contain too little protein and volume, or using food to manage stress and fatigue.

Before cutting more food, examine the system surrounding the eating behavior.

You Probably Do Not Need a Special Midlife Diet

Low carbohydrate or low fat?

Intermittent fasting or three meals per day?

Breakfast or no breakfast?

People often spend so much time arguing about the format of a diet that they overlook the characteristics most sustainable approaches share.

In the DIETFITS trial, 609 adults were assigned to either a healthy low-fat or healthy low-carbohydrate diet for 12 months. Weight loss varied considerably between individuals, but the average difference between the two groups was not statistically significant. Neither the tested genotype patterns nor baseline insulin secretion identified one diet as clearly superior (Gardner et al., 2018).

Some people manage their appetite more easily with fewer carbohydrates. Others feel and perform better with more carbohydrates and less fat.

A runner, cyclist, or highly active person may require substantially more carbohydrate than someone with a low activity level. Carbohydrates can support training, performance, and recovery.

A person who strongly prefers potatoes, rice, oats, fruit, or bread is also unlikely to maintain an unnecessarily restrictive low-carbohydrate diet forever.

The best structure is not necessarily the diet with the most dramatic name.

It is the one that:

  • Provides adequate protein

  • Includes enough fiber and plant food

  • Supports training and recovery

  • Uses intentional portions of calorie-dense foods

  • Fits the person’s medical needs

  • Can be repeated consistently in real life

Use Calorie Tracking as an Audit

Calorie tracking works well for many people because it exposes the difference between perception and reality.

A systematic review of digital self-monitoring interventions found that greater engagement with self-monitoring was generally associated with greater weight loss. However, relatively few interventions maintained consistently high tracking engagement over time (Patel et al., 2021).

That supports using tracking strategically rather than treating it as a permanent moral requirement.

Track Your Normal Eating for 7 to 14 Days

Seven to 14 days is a practical calibration period rather than a scientifically established minimum.

Try to record your normal behavior instead of immediately becoming unusually strict. Include:

  • Normal workdays

  • At least one weekend

  • Restaurant meals

  • Drinks

  • Cooking oils

  • Dressings and sauces

  • Bites and snacks that are normally forgotten

Look for:

  • Your approximate average calorie intake

  • Your protein intake

  • Your fiber intake

  • Foods that contribute more calories than expected

  • Meals that leave you hungry quickly

  • Differences between weekdays and weekends

  • Long periods of under-eating followed by evening overeating

  • Drinks, sauces, and condiments that have become invisible

You are not collecting this information to judge yourself.

You are trying to understand the system.

Once you understand the pattern, close the app and test whether the new structure works without constant logging.

Build Repeatable Meals

You do not need to eat exactly the same food every day.

You do need several meals that you understand well enough to repeat without measuring every ingredient.

A basic meal can contain four parts.

1. A Protein Anchor

Choose a portion that makes a meaningful contribution to your daily protein intake.

A few small pieces of chicken scattered over a large salad may not provide the same amount of protein as a dedicated serving of chicken, fish, tofu, or another protein source.

2. Fruit, Vegetables, or Another High-Fiber Food

These foods provide volume, nutrients, and another layer of fullness.

They do not have to be limited to green vegetables. Fruit, beans, lentils, potatoes, and whole grains can all contribute.

3. A Carbohydrate Source Matched to Your Activity

This might be:

  • Potatoes

  • Rice

  • Oats

  • Bread

  • Pasta

  • Fruit

  • Beans

  • Another preferred carbohydrate

The appropriate amount depends on your size, goals, training volume, and total diet.

Increase the amount when training demands are high. Reduce it when activity falls or when total intake is consistently exceeding your needs.

4. An Intentional Source of Fat

Fat may come from:

  • Cooking oil

  • Avocado

  • Nuts

  • Cheese

  • Eggs

  • Meat

  • Dressing or sauce

The word intentional matters because several individually reasonable fat sources can accumulate quickly within the same meal.

For example, a salad may contain olive oil, cheese, avocado, nuts, and a creamy dressing. Every ingredient may be nutritious, but the total meal can contain far more energy than expected.

Developing several dependable meals can reduce the need to calculate repeatedly.

A useful starting point might be:

  • Two or three breakfasts

  • Three dependable lunches

  • Four or five dinners

  • Two useful snacks

  • A strategy for restaurants and social meals

Familiarity creates freedom.

Pay Attention to the Foods That Are Easy to Misjudge

You probably do not need to weigh lettuce forever.

The foods most worth measuring during your initial audit are usually the ones that pack substantial energy into a small serving:

  • Cooking oil

  • Salad dressing

  • Nut butter

  • Nuts

  • Cheese

  • Granola

  • Coffee creamer

  • Alcohol

  • Desserts

  • Sauces

  • Restaurant meals

Measure them long enough to learn what a usual portion looks like.

Then use the same spoon, bowl, container, or serving routine to reproduce an appropriate portion without needing the scale every time.

This is one of the major differences between using tracking as an educational tool and becoming dependent on it.

Replace Ingredient Tracking With Outcome Tracking

Stopping calorie tracking does not mean that you stop collecting information.

You simply move from monitoring every input to monitoring the outcome.

Useful feedback may include:

  • Average morning body weight

  • Waist measurement

  • How your clothing fits

  • Hunger and fullness

  • Energy throughout the day

  • Strength performance

  • Running or endurance performance

  • Recovery between workouts

  • Menstrual or menopausal symptoms when relevant

Do not react to one unusually high weigh-in.

Body weight fluctuates because of:

  • Hydration

  • Sodium intake

  • Carbohydrate storage

  • Food and bowel contents

  • Menstrual-cycle changes

  • Recent training

  • Travel and disrupted routines

A single weigh-in is usually noise.

The trend across several weeks is information.

If your weight and waist are stable, your energy is good, and your performance is improving, the system is probably working.

If weight is rising consistently when that is not your goal, something within the system may need to be adjusted.

Recalibrate Instead of Starting Over

When progress stalls or weight begins to return, people often assume that the entire approach has failed.

Usually, you do not need a completely new diet.

You need another audit.

Track for three to seven days and look for what changed:

  • Did portions gradually grow?

  • Did restaurant meals become more frequent?

  • Did alcohol return?

  • Did daily movement decrease?

  • Did a protein-rich breakfast disappear?

  • Are you eating very little during the day and compensating at night?

  • Did your training volume change?

  • Are weekends now undoing the structure used Monday through Friday?

Identify the change, correct it, and stop tracking again when the structure is working.

Think of this like a thermostat.

You do not spend the entire day staring at the thermostat. You check the temperature, make a small adjustment when necessary, and allow the system to work.

When Tracking May Not Be Appropriate

Calorie tracking is not harmless or appropriate for everyone.

People with a history of disordered eating, intense food anxiety, or compulsive tracking may do better with a meal-based approach developed with an appropriately qualified registered dietitian, therapist, or clinician.

Tracking may also be insufficient when appetite, weight, or energy has changed because of:

  • A new medication

  • Thyroid disease

  • Diabetes

  • Gastrointestinal illness

  • Depression or another mental-health condition

  • Menopausal symptoms that severely disrupt sleep

  • Another significant medical change

Food structure remains useful, but it should not replace an appropriate medical evaluation.

The Goal Is Not to Ignore Calories

The goal is to stop needing a calculator to manage them.

Use tracking to learn:

  • What your normal portions contain

  • How much protein you are eating

  • Which meals keep you satisfied

  • Where calorie-dense foods enter your diet

  • How weekends differ from weekdays

  • How much food supports your current activity

Then replace constant logging with:

  • Repeatable meals

  • A protein source at each main meal

  • Fruit, vegetables, legumes, and other high-fiber foods

  • Carbohydrate portions matched to your activity

  • Deliberate portions of calorie-dense ingredients

  • A simple body-weight, waist, and performance feedback system

  • Short periods of recalibration when needed

Calories still matter.

You simply create an eating pattern that manages them in the background.

That is the difference between using calorie tracking as a tool and allowing it to become a permanent job.


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Why Your Pain Keeps Coming Back After 40

Why Your Pain Keeps Coming Back After 40

Suddenly, I Feel Old

Does that sound familiar?

Many of our clients describe a moment where they suddenly feel like they are getting older—often the same moment they realize their pain keeps coming back after 40. For some, that starts in their late 30s. For others, it does not really settle in until their late 40s or even later.

So what changed?

Often, it is triggered by children getting older, faster, stronger, and more active. Parents suddenly realize they are struggling to keep up. They do not have the same energy. Their joints hurt. They feel weaker than they remember being.

For adults without kids, that realization may come later because they are not being challenged by their own “mini-me” version running around the house.

Instead, they may notice it during normal life.

Getting off the floor is harder.

Carrying boxes feels heavier than it should.

A weekend project leaves them sore for days.

Their body composition changes.

Activities that used to feel easy now feel surprisingly demanding.

What they are experiencing is often a drop in their body’s current capacity to tolerate load.

And load does not just mean barbells.

Load can be running, squatting, lifting, hiking, playing with kids, carrying groceries, doing yard work, or simply tolerating a busy life while still feeling physically capable.

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Capacity: The Missing Piece

Pain is often talked about as if it is simple.

You are weak.

You are too tight.

You are not flexible enough.

You are “out of alignment.”

But pain is rarely that simple.

I have talked before about pain not simply being a symptom of one isolated problem. In that context, we explored the idea that your body’s capacity is a crucial, and often underappreciated, part of the equation.

To recap briefly: your body’s capacity to tolerate load can increase or decrease.

Yes, there is some decline with aging. But most of us rarely come close to our true physical ceiling, even as we get older.

Imagine that ceiling as the highest level of capacity your body could have if you trained intelligently, recovered well, ate appropriately, slept enough, and managed stress perfectly.

Of course, very few of us do that. Life gets in the way. Family, work, stress, inconsistent training, poor sleep, previous injuries, and normal aging all play a role.

For that reason, we should differentiate between your theoretical capacity and your functional capacity.

Your theoretical capacity is what your body might be capable of under ideal conditions.

Your functional capacity is what your body can actually tolerate right now, in the real world.

And for most people, functional capacity is much lower than theoretical capacity.

But there is another layer to this.

This is where old injuries can start to matter.

When the Ghosts of the Past Haunt Us in the Present

If you experienced injuries when you were younger – from sports, accidents, trauma, repetitive strain, or simply years of hard training – those injuries may have started a slow process of tissue change in your joints, tendons, ligaments, cartilage, or connective tissue.

That process can be very gradual.

You may feel fine for years.

Then, as you get older, gain weight, train inconsistently, move less, recover poorly, or suddenly increase your activity again, those old injuries can start to show up.

Not because you are broken.

Not because your body is falling apart.

But because the tissue capacity in that area may be lower than you think.

A good example is the former swimmer or baseball player whose shoulder starts acting up again in their 40s or 50s.

Or the former football player whose knee suddenly becomes swollen, and only then does he remember the ACL injury from 20 or 30 years ago.

Sometimes there was one clear traumatic event.

Other times, there was no single injury at all.

The issue may have developed through years of repeated overload, small compounding stressors, and the old sports mentality that rest and recovery were for the weak.

That mindset may have worked when you were 20.

But after 40, your body often becomes less forgiving when your current load exceeds your current capacity.

You Can Increase Your Body’s Capacity to Handle Load, But…But Pain Will Tell You Otherwise

The good news is that you can absolutely increase your body’s ability to tolerate running, squatting, lifting, chasing kids, playing soccer, hiking, or whatever else matters to you.

But this comes with a caveat.

In our 40s and beyond, we are not simply 20-year-olds who got lazy and can magically regain everything with a few months of proper training, nutrition, recovery, and sleep.

That viewpoint is too simplistic.

It may sound motivating, but it does not always serve people well.

Realistic expectations matter.

If you have had significant structural damage to joints, ligaments, cartilage, tendons, or other tissues, there is a real possibility that certain areas may never return to their previous capacity.

And to be fair, we have already established that most of us were probably never at our true maximum capacity anyway.

Significant structural changes can limit certain physical abilities while leaving others wide open.

That means a change in activity may sometimes be necessary.

A runner with significant ankle arthritis may still be able to perform exceptionally well in cycling, swimming, rowing, or strength training.

A swimmer whose shoulders are heavily affected may do better with running, cycling, soccer, hiking, or lower-body-focused training.

These are not examples of giving up.

They are examples of intelligent modification.

The goal is not to force your body into the exact activity it can no longer tolerate well.

The goal is to build as much capacity as possible while choosing activities that your body can adapt to.

Two Ways of Handling Things

So, in simple terms, we usually have two options.

First, we can increase the loading capacity of the affected area until the joints, tendons, ligaments, muscles, and connective tissues can tolerate the demands of the activity again.

Second, we can shift toward activities that place less stress on the previously injured or structurally limited area, while still allowing the person to train hard, stay fit, and feel capable.

Often, the best answer is some combination of both.

You build capacity where possible.

You modify where necessary.

And you stop treating every limitation as either a personal failure or a permanent sentence.

For example, arthritis is not currently “fixable” in the way many people would like it to be. There is ongoing research into cartilage repair and joint preservation techniques, but we are not yet at the point where we can reliably reverse established arthritis and restore a joint back to brand-new condition. Current research in cartilage repair continues to evolve, but long-term durability and full restoration remain major challenges (Frischholz et al., 2024).

That means our best tools are still practical ones.

For recurrent knee pain, especially when osteoarthritis is part of the picture, some of the biggest modifiable factors are maintaining a healthy body weight, improving strength around the joint, and gradually improving the body’s tolerance to load. Research has linked factors such as body weight, previous knee injury, and muscle function with knee osteoarthritis and knee pain risk (Silverwood et al., 2015; Huang et al., 2025).

This brings us right back to the idea of capacity.

The stronger and better conditioned the surrounding tissues are, the more support the joint has.

The more intelligently you build load tolerance, the more your body can usually handle.

You Are Not 20 Anymore, But You Are Also Not Broken

The important thing to understand is this:

Aging bodies still respond very well to training.

Joint changes may create limitations, but they do not mean you are broken.

They simply mean your program has to be smarter.

Here are the key takeaways:

  • Your load capacity has to be built gradually through careful increases in volume and intensity.
  • Recovery has to be prioritized.
  • Random spikes in load, mileage, intensity, or training frequency can increase the risk of pain and injury.
  • Consistency matters more than occasional heroic workouts.
  • Hard training can still have a place, but only after your body has been prepared for it.

You can still expect to get stronger.

You can still improve your fitness.

You can often reduce pain.

You can often perform at a level you have not reached in years.

But the rules change.

Prioritizing recovery, including sleep, becomes non-negotiable.

If you think you can consistently get away with five to seven hours of sleep while training hard, working full-time, managing stress, and expecting your body to adapt well, you may be in for a rude awakening.

The same applies to nutrition.

Adequate calories and protein are not optional details.

They are part of the recovery process.

They help your body repair, adapt, and become stronger.

So no, you are not 20 anymore.

But you are also not helpless.

You may not be able to train exactly like your younger self.

You may not be able to ignore recovery anymore.

You may need to modify certain activities.

But with intelligent training, realistic expectations, and consistent recovery, you can still build a body that is strong, capable, resilient, and ready for the life you actually want to live.

If pain keeps coming back every time you try to become active again, the answer is usually not to stop moving forever. The answer is to find the right starting point, build your capacity gradually, and choose the right activities for your current body.

If you are over 40 and dealing with recurring pain, this is exactly the kind of problem we help clients work through at Shape Up Fitness & Wellness Consulting.

References

Frischholz, S., Heinz, T., Weissenberger, M., Von Hertzberg-Boelch, S. V., Anderson, P., Ludemann, M., Jakuscheit, A., Rudert, M., & Stratos, I. (2024). Trends in cartilage repair techniques for chondral defects in the hip in Germany: An epidemiological analysis from 2006 to 2022. Life, 14. https://doi.org/10.3390/life14101262

Huang, C.-H., Segal, N. A., Felson, D. T., Sherman, D. A., Lewis, C. L., Bacon, K., Lynch, J., Lewis, C. E., & Stefanik, J. (2025). Impact of knee extensor power on knee pain in adults with or at risk for osteoarthritis: The Multicenter Osteoarthritis Study. The Journal of Rheumatology, 52, 1281-1287. https://doi.org/10.3899/jrheum.2025-0621

Silverwood, V., Blagojevic-Bucknall, M., Jinks, C., Jordan, J., Protheroe, J., & Jordan, K. (2015). Current evidence on risk factors for knee osteoarthritis in older adults: A systematic review and meta-analysis. Osteoarthritis and Cartilage, 23(4), 507-515. https://doi.org/10.1016/j.joca.2014.11.019

https://www.charlottepersonaltrainer.org/achilles-tendon-pain-why-rest-doesnt-work/Achilles Tendon Pain: Why Rest Doesn’t Work and What Helps Instead

Answering Questions You Might Be Too Afraid to Ask: Fitness for Women – Part 1

How can I lose weight and tone up without bulking up?

This is a question I hear all the time. The good news is that women’s ability to build large amounts of muscle mass is limited by their hormones, so there’s no real risk of bulking up while losing weight and toning.

What is toning?
Toning typically refers to increasing muscle definition while reducing body fat. It’s a combination of muscle growth and fat loss. As a woman, building significant muscle—especially in the upper body—takes considerable effort. So, there’s no real risk of looking bulky.

If someone appears bulky, it’s likely because their nutrition wasn’t handled properly, and excess body fat remains. Fortunately, this can be fixed by reducing calorie intake and maintaining a high-protein diet. As fat decreases, your toned physique will begin to show.

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What are the best exercises to burn fat?

Unfortunately, there’s no conclusive evidence supporting localized fat reduction through specific exercises. While some studies have hinted at it, meta-analyses haven’t confirmed those findings.

Instead, focus on combining exercises with proper nutrition. You can’t out-train a poor diet. The best approach is to build lean muscle mass, which increases your metabolism. Additionally, stay active with general movement like walking, and incorporate cardiovascular activities that involve the whole body.

Should I do more cardio or weight training to lose weight?

This is a tough question, but here’s my take:

Cardio Pros

  • Increases calorie burn
  • Improves cardiovascular health
  • Boosts stamina

Weight Training Pros

  • Builds muscle, which increases metabolism
  • Helps maintain muscle mass during weight loss
  • Enhances strength and body composition

During weight loss, metabolism tends to slow down, so maintaining or building muscle mass through weight training is crucial. Cardiovascular activity is beneficial, but it doesn’t help preserve muscle mass. If you’re working out five days a week, I recommend three days of weight training and two days of cardio.

Does my menstrual cycle affect my workouts?

Yes, it does! If you’re not on birth control, your menstrual cycle can impact your workouts.

Early Follicular Phase
During this phase, your endurance and strength may be slightly reduced, and you might not feel at your best. It’s perfectly okay to dial back during this time.

Mid-Luteal Phase
When estrogen and progesterone levels are high, you may find prolonged exercise—especially in hot conditions—more challenging. This is important to note if you’re an endurance athlete. Strength isn’t as affected during this phase, but you might feel increased cardiovascular strain due to elevated body temperature.

General Recommendations
While strength and VO2 max aren’t significantly impacted by menstrual phases, it’s a good idea to track your cycle and adjust your workouts based on how you feel. Every woman is different, so a one-size-fits-all approach doesn’t work. When working with my female clients, we take it day by day and adjust based on how they feel during warm-ups. Sometimes we need to pull back, but other times—especially when estrogen is high—they perform like powerhouses. Focus on what works for you.

If you’re on birth control, these fluctuations won’t apply, as hormone levels remain more stable throughout the month.


If you have more questions, feel free to reach out! What’s been your personal experience? If you’re not comfortable sharing publicly, you can always send me a direct message.

If you’re interested in more specific guidance, I offer personalized training programs to help you achieve your fitness goals. Let me know how I can assist you further!

How to Deal with Low Testosterone Levels: A Personal Trainer’s Guide for Injury Prevention and Longevity

As personal trainers specializing in injury prevention and longevity, we know how important it is to maintain optimal health for peak performance, especially as we age. Low testosterone is a common concern for many clients, and while it doesn’t always require action, understanding the implications and addressing the root causes can help your clients live longer, stronger, and healthier lives.

Who’s at Risk?

In younger men (20-44), low testosterone is often tied to obesity, diabetes, substance abuse, or congenital issues. It’s important to recognize that testosterone levels naturally decline over time. For men in their 30s, early declines are often linked to excess weight and unhealthy lifestyle habits, while for those over 40, age-related changes combined with lifestyle factors like inactivity, poor nutrition, and chronic disease play a significant role.

Testosterone Levels

The Role of Lifestyle in Testosterone Management

As trainers, our first line of defense is lifestyle change. Before referring clients to a medical professional for potential hormone therapy, it’s crucial to address key areas that can naturally improve testosterone levels, leading to better recovery, performance, and longevity.

Sleep:

  • Long-term sleep deprivation significantly lowers testosterone levels, reducing energy, drive, and recovery.
  • Sleep apnea, often linked to being overweight, can also suppress testosterone.

Weight Management:

  • Obesity has a profound negative effect on testosterone. Helping clients reach a healthy weight is one of the best ways to restore hormonal balance.

Nutrition:

  • Low-fat diets tend to decrease testosterone levels. Balance is key—don’t let clients cut fats too low.
  • Excessive protein intake (over 3.5g/kg body weight) may also lower testosterone, so fine-tuning their macros is essential.
  • Vitamin D deficiency is common and linked to lower testosterone, so supplementation could help.
  • Caloric restriction can increase testosterone in overweight men but have the opposite effect in men of normal weight. Tailor calorie deficits carefully.

Omega-3 fatty acids, found in fish and supplements, also seem to positively impact testosterone levels, making them a great addition to any nutrition plan.

Exercise and Testosterone: Finding the Right Balance

While we understand the importance of strength and endurance training for injury prevention and longevity, it’s essential to know how they impact testosterone and recovery in different populations.

  • Endurance Training:
    • For untrained men, endurance exercise can increase testosterone, improving energy and recovery. However, in seasoned athletes, chronic endurance training can sometimes suppress testosterone due to increased cortisol production.
    • Clients who combine endurance and resistance training will see a post-exercise testosterone spike, though long-term effects may be minimal.
    • Pro Tip: When programming, prioritize strength training before endurance work to avoid cortisol spikes that can counteract testosterone benefits.
  • Strength Training:
    • Resistance training has minimal impact on resting testosterone in older clients, but it remains vital for improving overall strength, muscle mass, and bone density, which are key to longevity.
    • Use higher intensity, compound movements to stimulate natural testosterone production and improve hormonal health in your clients.

Simplifying the Plan: A Roadmap for Trainers

Here’s how to help your clients manage their testosterone levels through lifestyle optimization:

  1. Assess and Adjust Sleep Patterns:
    Ensure clients get 7-8 hours of quality sleep. For those with sleep apnea, weight loss is essential, and referrals to sleep specialists may be necessary.
  2. Optimize Nutrition:
    • Work with clients to strike the right balance of fats and protein. Too little fat and too much protein can both negatively affect testosterone levels.
    • Ensure they’re getting enough Vitamin D and Omega-3s, and focus on calorie management to avoid extreme deficits, especially in clients of normal weight.
  3. Design Balanced Training Programs:
    • Prioritize strength training for longevity and muscle preservation, but include enough endurance work to support cardiovascular health.
    • Adjust the order and intensity of exercises to minimize cortisol spikes and maximize testosterone production.
  4. Track Progress:
    Encourage clients to monitor their progress over time, using baseline measurements (including body composition, strength, energy levels, etc.) and periodic assessments every 6-12 months. This will help gauge whether lifestyle adjustments are having the desired effect.

When to Consider Referrals for Medical Intervention

If, after a year of consistent sleep, nutrition, and exercise improvements, your client is still struggling with symptoms of low testosterone, it may be time to consult a hormone specialist. While Testosterone Replacement Therapy (TRT) can be effective, it’s important to recognize that once started, it often becomes a lifelong commitment. Encourage clients to weigh the pros and cons carefully and avoid rushing into this option without thorough lifestyle optimization first.

Personal Trainer Perspective: How I’ve Managed My Own Testosterone

I’m 47 now, and about 10 years ago I had my testosterone levels tested. My results showed average levels for my age group. At that time, I wasn’t sleeping enough (5-7 hours a night), my nutrition was okay but not optimal, and while I was training regularly, I wasn’t maximizing my potential.

By simply improving my sleep, most of my symptoms of low testosterone disappeared. Sure, I still struggle with getting enough sleep occasionally, but overall, I don’t experience any issues related to low testosterone. Could I optimize further for better training results? Absolutely. But for now, I’m satisfied with my progress.

This is an important lesson for our clients: Address the basics first. If they still experience symptoms after improving their lifestyle, then hormone therapy might be an option. But jumping into TRT without giving these changes a fair chance may lead to unnecessary lifelong treatments.

Your Client’s Journey to Longevity

As trainers, we’re in a unique position to guide clients toward better health, focusing not only on short-term performance but also long-term well-being. Optimizing sleep, nutrition, and exercise can go a long way in naturally managing testosterone levels, leading to better recovery, performance, and, most importantly, a longer, healthier life.

Remember, TRT may be a solution for some, but it should always be a last resort. Help your clients master the fundamentals before considering hormone therapy.

Coach Michael
Shape Up Fitness & Wellness Consulting

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How to Choose the Right Personal Trainer

How to Choose the Right Personal Trainer for Injury Recovery, Longevity, and How Much You Should Expect to Pay

What Do You Need to Know When Picking a Personal Trainer?

When it comes to finding the right personal trainer — especially if you’re focused on injury prevention, recovery, or longevity—it can feel like a big decision. And trust me, I’ve seen it all in my nearly 30 years of working with clients. But the good news is that once you know what you need, it becomes a lot easier to figure out who’s the best fit.

The key is to start by understanding your goals. Are you looking to recover from an injury, regain strength, or stay active as you get older? Defining this will help you find a trainer who specializes in exactly what you need.

Common Fitness Goals for Older Adults and Those in Recovery:

  • Injury prevention and recovery
  • Improving general fitness and mobility
  • Longevity and healthspan improvement
  • Flexibility and posture enhancement
  • Strengthening for fall prevention
  • Stress relief / Mental health support
  • Chronic pain management
  • Weight loss or muscle gain tailored to age-specific needs
  • Accountability and motivation for long-term success

For many of my clients, injury recovery or maintaining mobility is the top priority. For example, one of my clients, Paul, came to me after back surgery that left him feeling weak and unsure about exercising again. He said, “I was worried that working out would make things worse.” After months of carefully structured training, Paul not only regained his strength but also felt more confident in his body than he had in years.

Why Specialization in Injury Prevention and Longevity Matters

Not all personal trainers have the experience or knowledge needed to support clients recovering from injuries or seeking to improve their health as they age. A trainer specializing in injury prevention and longevity doesn’t just focus on building muscle or losing weight—they focus on long-term health, mobility, and staying pain-free.

One of my long-time clients, Cindy, who worked with me for several years after her shoulder surgery, once told me, “Before I started training with you, I couldn’t lift my arm without feeling pain. Now, I’m back to gardening, carrying groceries, and I feel like myself again.” Stories like Cindy’s are the reason I believe so strongly in the importance of specialized training.

What to Look for in a Personal Trainer Specializing in Recovery and Longevity

  1. Certifications and Experience: While certifications are important, they aren’t the only thing that matters. Look for trainers with a proven track record in injury prevention and recovery. My approach combines almost 30 years of hands-on experience with advanced education in sports science and sports medicine, which allows me to design programs that promote healing while avoiding further injury. I’ve worked with clients of all ages, from retirees to athletes recovering from surgery, and it’s about knowing how to tailor a plan for each person.
  2. Personalization and Communication: A great trainer will personalize every aspect of your program based on your unique needs. When choosing a trainer, ask how they assess your starting point and track progress. At Shape Up Fitness & Wellness Consulting, every client gets a customized program, whether it’s for post-surgical recovery, chronic pain management, or improving flexibility. One of our clients, Linda, a 73-year-old who struggled with balance issues, shared, “Michael helped me regain my confidence. I no longer worry about falling, and I can move around the house with ease.”
  3. Trust and Openness: Trust is the foundation of any trainer-client relationship. You need to feel comfortable being honest about your pain, limitations, and what you’re hoping to achieve. And in return, your trainer should be straightforward about what’s realistic and how they can help. I had a client, Ron, who came to me after multiple failed attempts at rehabbing a knee injury. He was frustrated, and understandably so. But with clear communication and a careful approach, Ron regained strength, and as he put it, “For the first time in years, I’m moving without pain, and I finally feel hopeful again.”

Be Clear About Your Needs

When you meet with a trainer, don’t be afraid to be specific about what you’re struggling with. Whether it’s pain, a lack of motivation, or feeling uncertain about your abilities, it’s important to communicate openly. One of my clients, Diane, admitted to me early on that she struggled to stay consistent with working out. She told me, “I just didn’t feel like I could stick with it.” Now, after over a year of working together, she’s exercising regularly and says, “I feel better than I have in years, and I actually look forward to my sessions.”

It’s okay to ask for help—that’s what trainers are here for. Whether you need someone to hold you accountable or guide you through a safe recovery, the right trainer will work with you to achieve your goals.

Do You Get What You Pay For?

There’s some truth to the saying, “you get what you pay for.” If you’re paying $20 an hour, you may end up with an inexperienced trainer who isn’t equipped to handle specialized needs like injury recovery or longevity training. A qualified trainer with experience in these areas will cost more, but you’re investing in your health, mobility, and overall well-being.

At Shape Up Fitness & Wellness Consulting, we provide specialized training that goes beyond just workouts—it’s about creating a plan for long-term success. Whether it’s avoiding future injuries or making sure you stay active as you age, we’re here to help you every step of the way.

How Much Does Personal Trainer/Training Cost?

In Charlotte, NC, here’s what you can expect for personal training rates:

  • 30-minute sessions: $50–$70
  • 45-minute sessions: $65–$95
  • 60-minute sessions: $80–$110

For trainers with specializations like injury recovery, prevention, and longevity, expect to pay around 10–30% more due to the advanced qualifications required to safely guide clients through these challenges.

Investing in Your Long-Term Health

At the end of the day, investing in a specialized trainer is an investment in your future. Whether it’s recovering from an injury, improving your mobility, or simply staying active as you age, having someone who understands your unique needs makes all the difference.

One of my favorite client success stories comes from a gentleman named Frank, who came to me with chronic back pain. He had tried other programs that didn’t work for him, and he was starting to lose hope. After working together, Frank told me, “For the first time in years, I can play with my grandkids without worrying about my back. That’s priceless.”

If you’re ready to take control of your health and invest in your future, we’re here to help.


Final Thoughts

Finding the right personal trainer is about more than just workouts—it’s about finding someone who understands your unique needs and can guide you toward a healthier, more active life. Take the time to ask the right questions, look for a trainer who specializes in injury prevention and longevity, and remember, your health is always worth the investment.


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The Elusive Balance

The Elusive Balance: Embracing the Other Side

We’re always talking about balance in life.

  • Work/life balance
  • Balancing our needs with the needs of others
  • And so on…

But what does that really mean? If you think about it, it suggests one thing: we’re constantly out of balance. True balance is fleeting—a moment in time, not something we can sustain indefinitely.

This past Labor Day, I decided to take a break from my usual highly-structured routine. After two hours of work in the morning, I committed to doing absolutely nothing productive for the rest of the day. My plan? Sink into video games and movies—preferably both at the same time to satisfy my ADHD cravings—and indulge in some “whole foods” like Oreo cookies, Lay’s Sour Cream & Onion chips, Nutella bread, and cheese nachos. The order of consumption didn’t matter; the goal was simple: sit in my chair for 12-14 hours of gaming bliss.

Mission accomplished.

But why did I do this? What was the point?

Well, my schedule is normally packed. I don’t spend hours scrolling through social media, binge-watching shows, or getting lost in video games. I’m productive, regimented, and in bed by 8:30 p.m. Saying I’m structured is an understatement. But that kind of discipline has a price. Every few months, I start to feel boxed in. And when that happens, I need the complete opposite—an all-out break from routine.

Labor Day arrived right on time this year. I’d been feeling increasingly caged, so I knew it was time to hit the reset button.

Now, I get that I’m probably an extreme case. For you, a break might look different.

After my day of gluttony, I eventually managed to peel myself out of the chair (it took two tries). My body felt ancient, and after a glance in the mirror, I thought for a moment it might be true—just kidding. But honestly, I was grateful. Grateful that I don’t spend most days glued to a chair. The next day, I was genuinely excited to get back to my routine, refreshed and ready to tackle my day.

Occasionally living on the other side of my usual habits makes me appreciate the balance I’ve worked so hard to create. It reminds me of who I am and how far I’ve come. Years ago, I was a video game addict, gaming 40 hours a week while running a business. Reconnecting with that side of myself once in a while gives me the mental break I need and reinforces just how much I’ve grown.

So, what works for you? How do you navigate the fine line between productivity and rest, routine and indulgence? Let’s hear it—how do you balance on that proverbial razor’s edge?

When and How to Pick a Supplement

how to pick a supplement

Ah, supplements—the glittering promise of health in a bottle. With the U.S. market alone raking in a cool $50 billion annually (as of 2022) and growing at 5.7% each year, it’s clear that supplements are big business. Globally, this juggernaut of an industry was valued at $151 billion and is on track to double by 2030, according to Grand View Research. Cha-ching!

But here’s the kicker: despite all those billions, the supplement industry still isn’t FDA-regulated. That’s right, folks—the Wild West still exists, and it’s in your medicine cabinet. With no sheriff in town, supplements can sneak in some unsavory characters like prescription drugs, heavy metals, and even unlisted steroids. Yikes!

So, how can you, the well-meaning consumer, navigate this chaotic marketplace and pick supplements that are not only safe but also actually do what they say on the tin? Before you start peeling your wallet open, let’s revisit when supplements should even be on your shopping list.

When to Consider Supplements

Supplements are like your health sidekicks—they’re there to help out where your lifestyle might be falling short. But here’s what they can’t do:

  • They can’t replace sleep (no magic pill for that yet, sorry).
  • They won’t substitute for exercise (still gotta get those steps in).
  • They can’t take the place of a healthy, whole-food-based diet (no skipping the veggies).

So, if your lifestyle is already top-notch but you’ve got a few gaps that need filling, supplements might be the way to go.

How to Choose the Right Supplement

Now, let’s talk about how to figure out which supplements are actually worth your hard-earned cash. A great resource I like is EXAMINE.COM. These guys peer-review research in the field of nutrition and compile supplement guides based on actual science. And the best part? They don’t sell any supplements or recommend specific companies, so there’s no conflict of interest.

I highly recommend using them and similar sites to find out what could work best for you. Keep in mind, though, that research is always evolving, so those guides are constantly updated. Stay informed!

Avoiding Shady Supplements

Now that you know what you need, how do you avoid getting ripped off by shady providers? Here’s what I do: stick with organizations that test products regularly. Below are some quality resources to help you out:

  • ConsumerLab: A leader in independent test results, ConsumerLab helps consumers and healthcare pros identify the best quality health and nutrition products. They test for purity, label accuracy, and contaminants like heavy metals.
  • Labdoor: This independent testing company buys supplements off the shelf, tests them for quality and purity in an FDA-registered lab, and then ranks them. They provide detailed reports on content, safety, and label accuracy.
  • USP (United States Pharmacopeia): A nonprofit that sets standards for the quality, purity, strength, and consistency of supplements. Products meeting USP standards carry the USP Verified Mark—a badge of quality.
  • NSF International: This independent organization tests and certifies supplements for safety, quality, and performance. Products passing NSF’s tests can carry the NSF Certified for Sport mark, indicating they’re free from banned substances and contaminants.
  • Banned Substances Control Group (BSCG): BSCG offers a supplement certification program that includes testing for banned substances, label verification, and contaminant screening. Their certification ensures that products meet high standards for quality and safety.
  • Informed-Choice: A global certification program for sports nutrition products, ensuring they’re free from substances banned by the World Anti-Doping Agency (WADA). Their testing process is rigorous, focusing on both safety and efficacy.

Got questions? Want to share your supplement adventures (or misadventures)? Let me know—I’d love to hear about your experience!

Keeping Promises to Ourselves: Why It Matters and How to Do It

Many people pride themselves on being honest, humble, and committed to keeping their word. While this is admirable, the reality is that we often struggle to honor the promises we make to ourselves. Here are some common examples:

  • “This week I will not drink during the week because it negatively affects my sleep.”
  • “I will go to bed by [time] to get more sleep.”
  • “I will meal prep my food this week.”
  • “I will go to the gym three times this week.”
  • “I will spend less time on my phone while with my family.”
  • “I will tackle the task of [specific task] that has been hanging over my head.”

The list goes on. We need to understand why keeping promises to ourselves is crucial and how to improve in this area.

Behavioral Change and Commitment

Promises serve as powerful motivators for change, even in the absence of external consequences. Keeping promises to ourselves helps maintain intrinsic motivation. When we consistently break these promises, even about small matters, we weaken our intrinsic motivation. For example, if someone eats the cake they said they wouldn’t, they might feel discouraged and let the whole day go off course.

Emotional Consistency

Maintaining consistency between our actions and words is essential for personal integrity. When we fail to follow through on promises, it disrupts our sense of emotional consistency and can lead to feelings of guilt or inadequacy.

Internal Value System

Promises align with our internal value system and create a sense of duty. However, if we continuously break promises, we undermine this value system, often without realizing it. This erosion can lead to diminished self-respect and inner conflict.

Self-Regulation Skills

The ability to keep promises is tied to self-regulation skills, such as conscientiousness. Effective self-regulation supports following through with commitments, enhancing personal discipline and reliability. Conversely, failing to keep promises weakens our self-regulation, discipline, and reliability.

Trust and Expectations

When we fail to meet promises and expectations, we disrupt the cycle of trust. This interruption affects both our trust in ourselves and how others perceive us. Consistently breaking promises can lead to a lack of trust in our own abilities and a weakened reputation with others.

Strategies for Keeping Promises

  1. Set Realistic Goals: Break larger commitments into smaller, manageable tasks to avoid feeling overwhelmed.
  2. Prioritize Your Promises: Focus on the most important promises and be selective about additional commitments.
  3. Track Your Progress: Use tools like journals or apps to monitor your adherence to promises and make adjustments as needed.
  4. Reflect and Adjust: Regularly review your commitments and adjust your goals based on current circumstances and priorities.

Summary

Keeping promises is crucial for maintaining healthy relationships with others and with ourselves. It supports behavioral changes, trust, self-regulation, alignment with our values, and emotional stability.

Conclusion

Why do we struggle to keep promises to ourselves? Often, it’s due to overcommitment. We tend to agree to too many things, causing our own needs and promises to suffer. While we can always reset and start over, it’s important to build a strong foundation of values, emotional stability, and self-trust. We all experience discomfort when we break our promises, but it’s essential to balance commitments with realistic expectations.

A practical rule of thumb is to aim to fulfill promises 90% of the time. This approach is challenging, as we tend to overcommit when things are going well, only to face unexpected obstacles later.

In my own experience, managing commitments has been a challenge. Running a business, juggling a three-way split family, and maintaining a long-distance relationship have all contributed to a busy schedule. Despite my initial overwhelm, I’ve committed to this group because I believe in its potential. If it becomes too much, I will be honest about my capacity and adjust as needed.

I hope this article helps some of you. I now commit to fewer things, turn clients away when necessary, and prioritize self-care. Achieving 90% adherence to my promises is a goal I am proud of. When I fall short, I reassess and adjust.

What has your journey been?

References

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