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Make a Change! Get Rid of the Negative Things in Your Life

Many of us hang on to “stuff” way too long, days, weeks, months or years after we pretty much know it is not working for us anymore. The reasons are plentiful.

Change At Shape Up Fitness & Wellness ConsultingWe are afraid of change

Change does not come easy to us. We don’t know what really is on the other side. Are we going to get the job, the life, [insert what you want]. Is it really what I want? Do I burn bridges if I make changes. These are just a couple of the thoughts going through some of us. It is okay to be afraid. Everyone is afraid of something, the difference is the following: The person who is not afraid disregards a built in warning system, the person who is afraid but after taking his or her fear into account and takes that leap of faith is brave or courageous. It is not that we are not afraid, we just use the fear as what it is, a warning system Turn down the volume a little, but still incorporate its message into our planning.

We want to make it desperately work

Sometimes we just cannot let go. It is so hard to admit that something is not working for us anymore. We might associate it with having failed. It could not be further from the truth in most cases. We do not control life. The things we are actually in control of are very limited. I have been in relationships too long, held on too long to a training plan that was too difficult for me and many more things. I am guilty of trying to make it work.

There is nothing wrong of putting an effort into making something work, finding a solution to a problem. But we do need to reassess the situation periodically and decide if all sides involved are putting an effort in, or if said efforts are successful. It might be time to move on.

We are afraid to fail

Failure and trying to make something desperately work are often closely related. What if I change and I fail at the new thing? I will be left with nothing! Maybe for some of us that rings a bell.

This probably is one of the biggest ones for me. I am afraid to fail but really underlying of it all is not being worthy enough, being a valuable, lovable member of society. Well, I learned that just to be mainstream is not really who I want to be, or rather who I am. I don’t want to be average, I want to be good, even excel at the things I have a passion for. Like Edison said: “I have not failed. I’ve just found 10000 ways that won’t work.” Every successful person in life will be criticized, judged and put down. The person will fail. The difference between that person and perhaps you and I? They get up and do it again, like a child that learns how to walk. It falls, bumps its head, over and over again, but in the end it prevails and gets back up and finally walk. Maybe we need to be more like children and less like adults. Get up and do it again!

We are afraid of the unknown

What is going to happen if we make a sudden change in our life? Is it going to work out exactly as we planned? Am I going to get what I wanted? Or am I getting more than I bargained for? Yeah, we can go to fortune teller but in the end, no one really knows what is going to happen. The big unknown is probably one of the biggest fears for some of us. There are some ways though that can help you ease the change. Make small changes at first, take small steps that are not as frightening. Feel the empowerment of success and how it feeds your desire to do more. In the end you won’t be able to completely eliminate the unknown, but people who actively seek to change their life to the positive seem to have a tendency to get something that is close to what they seek 🙂

It is easier to just go on

Well, that sure is the true for me! Sitting at home in front of the TV instead of going to work out, find a better job, follow your passion, [you name it], is so much easier than investing into the actual doing. The TV is mindnumbing, books or video games can be a great escape. The excuse of being lazy is also great to not admit some of the reasons up and above. This is an excuse I have used at times in my life. I was addicted to video gaming, I gamed for 40 hours a week while being married, having a business. I was addicted to the escape it provided. While gaming I did not have to face the struggles of the business, the financial fears, etc.  After years of doing this though, I became increasingly discontent. I just could not go on any longer, having my life go by me, me as an observer just watching. I finally made a cut. I feel more alive now then I ever have. Life is not easier, but it has been worth the change. I have a successful business, I am the fittest I have ever been, and am the happiest I have ever been, I have surrounded myself with people who love and accept me the way I am.

 

What can you do?

You might have been able to see yourself in one, some, or all of the reasons for not wanting to change. Find the things in your life that hold you back and change them, get rid of the negativity, divorce it! Take small steps, take big steps, it all depends on you and your game plan.

Make a list

  • What is that holds you back! Write the 3 most important things down
  • How would you like your life to be? List 3, highest priority first
  • How would you feel if you had these three things accomplished
  • How do the things that hold you back affect the life you would like to have
  • How can you change the things that hold you back in order to minimize or eliminate their impact on your success?
  • Write down a strategy on how to accomplish your goals!

I hope this has been helpful.

If you need any help with transforming and discovering your best, give me a call!

Michael

Frustrated with your weight during Christmas Season

Christmas Season Fitness Frustration

Most of us have had the weight loss or fitness frustration during this time of the year. Here we are struggling all year to do well and then the Holidays come around. All of a sudden there are Christmas parties everywhere, the end of the year work stress, kids and partners being sick, we are low on cash because of bills and Christmas gifts. It is the season that probably puts on the most pounds on people. The stress, the food and the time restrictions make it seemingly impossible to make it through. Christmas Weight Loss at Shape Up Fitness & Wellness Consulting

Don’t be mad!

Here is one thing, being frustrated with yourself does not make it any easier, quite the opposite, the likelyhood of you eating more food, especially comfort food rises.  We are all aware that this is coming around, most of us have seen it for a couple of decades (including the weight gain). If you have gained weight until now during this season, be okay with it. It is not like the weight drops right away if you are mad at yourself right, and I am sure you have felt the hunger cravings for chocolate or other comfort foods during that time when you are mad at yourself.

Now it is easier said that done. If you are mad, then you are mad, right? Well, kind of. It has actually shown that people active pursue some self compassion, like in the form of saying to yourself: “It is okay that I have eaten too much, most people struggle during this time, I am not alone”, really seem to be doing better and compensating less with food afterwards.

Move on!

Some of us live in the future and always worry, some of us live in the past and feel eternally guilty for something. Accept your responsibility and move on. We all fail, all great leaders have failed in one way or another, the difference usually is that they are capable of moving on. It does not mean you don’t take responsibility but guilt tripping yourself for all eternity has not changed anything yet other than making you eat more and feel bad. Next time you make a mistake, may that be eating or otherwise, take responsibility, have some compassion for yourself and move on by doing differently again. Thomas Eddison once said: “I have not failed. I have just found 1000 ways that won’t work.” In the end he was successful.

 

Reset!

How do you move on? You reset your day. You have eaten badly? You have not exercised? Reset the day. Start again. Eat healthily for the rest of the day, get  a short workout in, even 10 min are better than nothing. You can do it

Sincerely,

 

Michael Anders

Head Trainer Shape Up Fitness & Wellness Consulting

 

What does it mean to be fit?

As a personal trainer I always ask my client for her/his goals. I often get to hear that she wants to be as fit as she can be. At other times I hear people compare athletes from different sports with each other and how one athlete is fitter than the other.

Fitness is a vague term and cannot be entirely nailed down. At the same time, when you are looking to work with a personal trainer it is important that you know what you are aiming for, what your definition of fitness is. A sprinter, a marathon runner, a weight lifter or a basketball player, they all require a certain fitness that pertains to their sport and their goals. It is really hard to compare them with each other though. All of them have a very specific goal and the adaptations in their body aim to improve on what is necessary to have a better performance. A true sprinter will not be able to run a marathon and the marathon runner is so slow over a 100 m dash that you can drink a coffee. Why? Their muscles have adapted to the requirements of their sport. Sprinter Shape Up Fitness & Wellness Consulting

If you want to get fit, then you have to find out what that means for you. Do you want to acquire what I call a general fitness, meaning, improve your cardiovascular fitness (in this case endurance >30 min), your strength, even some of your sprint ability? Then you need to understand that you cannot be great at everything. Up to a certain point you can improve on all of those but there is a turning point where you will have to specialize in a discipline in order to keep improving. Why is that?

Because sometimes the required adaptations contradict each other. Take me for example: I want to be stronger, be more explosive, run marathons and do martial arts. Well, good luck with that! I have become faster in my marathons, I have become stronger and faster for my martial arts but… I will level out. Someone who runs long distance trains slow twitch muscle fibers, someone who sprints, fast twitch muscle fibers. A body running long distance cannot carry a lot of muscle and stay fast. There is an optimum. At the same time a sprinter needs fast twitch muscle fibers that are able to contract explosively and generate more force than slow twitch muscle fibers. Those muscle fibers are bigger if trained.

I know I will never be as fast a sprinter, a marathon runner, or as strong a lifter as if I specialized on one thing only. I am getting better at all of it, but it takes longer which I am okay with. Marathon runner @ Shape Up Fitness & Wellness Consulting

Even if you consider being a specialist, you still need to cross train in other areas because they can help improve your performance up to a certain point.

Most of our clients look for general fitness, some are specialists. We make sure our personal training is catered to the specific needs of our clients. I hope this article was able to help you find out what you are looking for and help you understand the importance of knowing your goals.

Looking forward to hearing from you,

 

Michael

Which Fitness Trends are going to stay in Charlotte?

Which Fitness Trends are going to stay in Charlotte?

Like every year there is always someone who tries to predict the fitness trends for the following year. This article is based on the article posted by the ACSM. I will comment on each of the top 10 trends and tell you what makes sense and what is most likely just a fad that is going to go away or is going to hurt you.

According to a survey they did the upcoming year will  see the following fitness trends:

High Intensity Interval Training (HIIT)

is signified by short hard intervals followed by a resting period. This has been big already this year. I think depending on your goals this kind of training is actually here to stay. It shows some significant promise in weight loss as well as improving cardiovascular fitness fast. It is definitely NOT the holy grail. It will still have to be supplemented by other training depending on what you are trying to accomplish.

Body Weight Training

allows you to train with minimal equipment and get in shape. A great choice for many people, and definitely should be in your arsenal in the pursuit of fitness. Be aware though that if you are really out of shape even body weight might be too heavy and once you have accomplished a certain fitness level the training stimulus might just not be enough to help you improve.

 

Educated and Experienced Fitness Professionals

it seems that people are looking for more qualified trainers and professionals. This is definitely a trend that I embrace with all of my heart.

 

Strength Training

This has been a staple for a while and properly executed is an important part of your physical fitness, especially considering that our professions have become more and more sedentary.

 

Exercise and Weight Loss

This is a trend that keeps coming and my feelings are ambivalent about it. The reason for that is that despite all efforts with diets and exercise the overall population is still getting more obese. What has worked for us is guiding our clients to a healthy lifestyle instead of a diet, which includes cooking unprocessed food instead of counting calories. Counting calories seem to put the clients mind too much towards food and as we all know it is impossible not to think about a blue elephant in the room if someone tells you not to.

 

Personal Training

Education has become increasingly more important in this field and I can fully embrace that as well. Education and knowledge should be a minimum requirement, not optional.

 

Fitness Programs for Older Adults

with our populations average age rising fitness in our older population becomes more and more important and that is definitely important to keep health care costs low, improve quality of life and general fitness.

 

Functional Fitness

this term is frequently abused. The way I look at it: Functional training is the training that prepares the individual best for their daily living activities, their sports activities without hurting them but improving their performance. Balance, strength, coordination, stability and mobility are all part of this.

 

Group Personal Training

Offering a cheaper alternative to personal training it can be a good choice for clients and trainers without compromising the quality of training too much.

 

Yoga

the different variations of yoga can have beneficial effects on people, physically as well as mentally. It is crucial though to have a good instructor otherwise you might have the same experience as some of our clients that come to us after injuries to wrist, neck, back and knees.

 

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